Friday, March 7, 2014

Goals

I don't make new years resolutions. I think that if you don't like something about yourself, change it. Don't wait for the new year to start.

But I did decide that there is some things about me that I don't like. So I am making some goals for myself.

1. I want to be more positive. I'm naturally a pessimistic person, I've found that it's easier to just expect less of people so I won't be disappointed. And you know, that's really sad. So instead of being so negative I'm going to look for the good in things instead of the bad.

2. I want to be happy. I think everyone wants to be happy myself included but I let other people's actions influence whether I'm happy or not. I think this is a major problem in today's world. You don't like someone, and all you can think about is how much you hate them and they just make you so unhappy. 

3. I'm going to speak up more. This one goes along with the happy goal. I let too many people walk all over me and do and say things that hurt me. And then I let it fester for weeks sometimes months to appease the other person, and it really makes me unhappy. So if someone does something that hurts me I'm going to speak up and say something. And there is a lot of things that have happened so be prepared for the flood.

Life is too short to be unhappy. I can't believe I wasted so many years letting other people control how happy I was. That's what I changed the look of this blog. I used to be a green color (because I wanted a neutral color but then I decided that I want happy colors! So now there is bright colors on this blog! (Still working on the banner but it will do for now).

I'm going to keep people up to date with our lives but I'm going to try to keep the posts positive and happy :) If something really sad happens and I need to talk about it I will but for the most part we are going to be happy! 

Happy Friday friends! This weekend is going to be great!

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